Get Over Your Life – It Doesn’t Have to Be Miserable 4

Your Life Needs a Leader

The reason why it seems as though your life is so out of control is that it doesn’t have a leader. Lead your life starting now.

You’ll start to see how much better it feels to be in control of what happens every day. How much more you can get done. How good it feels not to feel like the world is fighting against you.

It’s time to step out of misery and into happiness. You deserve this after everything you’ve been through.


Marcelina Hardy, MSEd is the founder of Achieve Brilliance Life Coaching, empowering professional women to achieve success in business and life. Learn more about how life coaching services can help you succeed on the Achieve Brilliance website.


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Get Over Your Life – It Doesn’t Have to Be Miserable 3

Change Yourself When You Can’t Change Others

So you can’t always change other people or the world around you, so in this case, you’ll have to change the way you react. The good news is that many times, people will change the way they act when you change the way you react.

Follow these steps to change your reaction to your world:

Be commited to Happiness - 2

How do we ‘practise’ being happy in daily life?

How do we ‘translate’ joy to practise in everyday life?
How do we 'make' ourselves happy, everday?

Happiness

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect.
It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

The glass is both half filled and half empty.
It depends on how you choose to perceive it!

Stop worrying and be Committed to being Happy - 1

We previously talked about WORRYING and how unproductive it is.
Worrying certainly gives you something to do but gets you nowwhere!

We can stop unnecessary worrying if we can distinguish between the things that are within our control and the things that are not within our grasp.
Then, we will realise that a lot of nitty gritty things that we worry about daily are really not in our control! So why worry ?

Bear in mind always that YOU are in control.

But isn't that contradictory?  Afterall, we just mentioned that a lot of things we worry about are not within our control ?

The Secret to Happiness :

... lies in the Art of Simple Living!

“Simplicity is the essence of happiness.” - Cedric Bledsoe

A lot of the complexity in our lives come when we try to keep up certain appearances.
A simpler, happier life can be achieved when we drop those appearances and just live naturally, without pretense.

Do we spend a lot on expensive clothes so we can impress our superiors or fancy a huge house and luxury car to show off to our neighbours or try to impress others with our knowledge?

Shaking off these pretenses, results in simplicity and we become more true to ourselves.
Learn to live a simpler, more natural life, and drop the pretenses one at a time. You’ll be glad you did.

There are many ways you can live a simpler life in various areas. What areas have you changed by dropping pretenses? What areas would you like to change? Do feel free to share in the comments!